It doesn’t matter what sexuality you identify as, in the most part, you are going to want to have sex with someone at some point. This could be someone of the opposite sex or it could be someone of the same sex. No matter who it is, if you can find some amazing sex positions that will help you both to feel amazing, well that is just the best news ever!
To celebrate WLW or women loving women relationships, we have decided to dedicate this particular blog post to those positions that women can really enjoy together. Whether that is with penetrative sex or not. This is The Top Sex Positions for Women Loving Women!
It might be one of the oldest positions in the book, but there is a good reason why missionary is still around and much loved. It is one of those positions that are up close and personal, you entirely face to face and if you are looking for some slow and sensual lovemaking then it works wonders. Of course, if you are in a WLW relationship and want to try missionary then you may want to invest in a strap on or double ended dildo, as this will take your sex to the next level.
Whilst slow and long-lasting is great, sometimes you just want to have some quick satisfaction without having to worry about all the other bells and whistles. A great approach to try when a quickie call is fingering. Chances are that you know what your partner wants, and can give it to her, so let your fingers get to work and do the talking.
If you are usually the partner who does the penetrative work during your lovemaking, then chances are that you get a little tired. So, why not mix things up again and try out butt bumping instead? This is an incredibly intimate approach to penetrative sex and you can really let go and have some fun with this. Essentially you choose a double-ended dildo and one partner will insert it into their vagina before the other one does the same. Not only are you both going to be vying for space on the dildo, but when you do both get deep penetration at a similar time, that is going to feel great.
It wouldn’t be a WLW list without adding in scissoring to the mix. Popular with the ladies, this position is not only pleasurable, but it is hugely versatile too. It works if you are looking for a quick fix, or if you want to enjoy some longer lovemaking too. In order for this to work, you both need to be comfortable and you need to feel that your clitoris is stimulated by your movements. Once you get the right spot you can grind yourself, and your partner to orgasm.
These are just some of the great ideas for those in a WLW relationship, why not try out some new positions for yourself and see if you can find one that really works for you both and leaves you feeling great. We hope that you have enjoyed this The Top Sex Positions for Women Loving Women post and hopefully it contributes to your next play session.
Once these positions have been tried and tested, why not add a few toys and accessories?
We all feel great when our partner runs their hands all over us, it makes us feel like they can’t get enough of us and so a strap on will definitely enhance this position, being face to face is great with your lover and wearing either a double or a strapless strap on will leave your hands free for caressing, touching and squeezing. Then, of course, there’s the old traditional double ended dildo, this does require a certain amount of synchronicity between you both as there is nothing holding it in or on. All of these come in vibrating and non-vibrating options to tailor to you and your lovers’ needs.
While this alone is a simple yet extremely intimate act there are ways to spice it up. In the vibrator category, you will find Finger Fun, this will have all kinds of toys to enhance your hands from textured gloves to tiny bullet vibrators that fit onto your fingers. These will feel great all over your body, giving a different texture or a vibration over erogenous zones, teasing inner thighs, vibrating over nipples, let those fingers explore before sinking in to finally pleasure your partner to the point of climax.
As I’ve just mentioned, using a double-ended dildo requires a certain amount of finesse so this position will make it easier. This will also open the option for easier double penetration for you both using an extra double ended dildo, or a wide ended butt plug as that will get pushed in each time you bump giving extra stimulation.
Although this position when done right will give an amazing feel of friction directly between you and your partner there’s always an option to ramp up the stimulation. Using a lay on clitoral vibrator you will both share the same stimulation, or if your partner deserves an extra treat you could use a U shaped G Spot vibe with clitoral outer vibe, she will be filled with her G Spot massaged while you both share the clitoral part, with the movement of the scissoring we’re sure you will both climax well and possibly together too.
Another toy that’s worth a mention is the remote-controlled vibrators, this is where a WLW definitely have a perk over a heterosexual relationship, when you’re both wearing a panty vibe it gives an edge of competition, will you beat bringing your partner to climax before she does it to you? Whoever comes first buys dinner in the sophisticated restaurant you’re both squirming in.
Don’t forget to check the Couples Sex Toys categories, especially for the Foreplay, Fun and Moodsetters. You will find flavoured massage candles or oils, feather teasers, massage gloves and sweet honey dust to lick off your lovers sweet massaged skin then if you’d like to try something a little more risqué head over to the Bondage Toys category for more sensual toys and restraints to put her exactly where you want her.
We hope we’ve given you at least some ideas to try, if you have any more ideas or tips to share please leave a reply below.