If there is one thing that is certain, it is that you are going to find your partner sexy, maybe not all the time, but there are likely to be times when you just look at them and think “phwoar, I am lucky to have you!”.
The only trouble with this is that your partner might not agree. We all feel a bit down on ourselves from time to time. What you may not realise is that the best person to help us to get out of this funk is our partner.
Which means that it is down to you. If you are worried that your partner doesn’t feel at their best, then why not make the effort to make sure that they feel as sexy as possible? Here are The 5 Best Ways To Make Sure Your Partner Feels Sexy.
Treat them to a massage
When you give someone a massage you are basically telling your partner that you want to spend about 15-20 minutes just focused on them. Turn the light down low, light a candle and grab some lovely smelling oils, we can promise you that when you are finished they are going to feel amazing.
Pay them plenty of compliments
You should never underestimate the power of a compliment, so, make sure that you pay your partner compliments as and when you can. Of course, you don’t want to bombard them or make them feel that you are being insincere, instead you should just every so often let them know that you think that they are pretty awesome. This will definitely help them to feel a whole lot better about themselves and just how gorgeous they are.
Make the pleasure all about them
The thing about pleasure is that sometimes it can be a selfish thing, we all want to get where we want to be, but that should never be at the detriment of our partner. It might be a good idea to take the time to worship them a bit. Make the pleasure all about them. If you know what they like in the bedroom, make sure that you do it, not only will it make you both feel great in that moment, but they will also feel that they are pretty amazing afterwards too.
Let them take control
Not only should you make sure that you focus your efforts on your partner in the bedroom in order to make them feel great, but you should also hand them the reins too. Let them decide the rules (within boundaries of course) and let them take control of what you get up to. In doing this you could actually learn something new and you are also showing them that you really care about their pleasure too.
It’s not all about sex
One important thing to remember when it comes to making your partner feel great is that it isn’t always about sex. Sure, focusing on them in the bedroom is always going to make them feel appreciated and pretty darn sexy, but it goes so much deeper than that. You should also be letting them know that you appreciate them in other ways, such as letting them have a lie-in, running them a bath or giving them some me-time chances. This really is a fast-track to being a great partner and making your partner happy too!