If there is one thing that can have a huge impact on how much you enjoy sex with your partner, it is yourself. Sounds strange we know, but how confident you are in yourself and comfortable you feel in your own skin. Well, these are both things that can have a huge impact on your sex life.
Feel that you need a bit of a boost in the bedroom? Want to grow your confidence and start to have the best sex ever? Here are some of the best ways that you can give yourself a boost.
Dirty talk is not something that everyone feels comfortable doing, however it can be a really useful tool to share with your partner what you like them to do and of course, what you would like to do to them too. Simply by speaking up and sharing some fantasies, or even just some basic things that you would like them to do, well that is not only going to give you a confidence boost, but it will also help your pleasure too.
There is nothing quite like anticipation to make things feel even more amazing. This is why many people enjoy the way that teasing makes them feel. Not only this, but if you are the one doing the teasing then you are going to feel in control and therefore you will be even more confident with what you are doing.
Your partner can tell you how great that they think you are, but true confidence comes from when you love yourself. Every inch of yourself in fact. Stand in front of the mirror and rather than thinking about all the things that you would change about your body, take a look at all the things that you love. Are you proud of your silver stripes earned by being a parent? Then that is amazing! Love the way that your body curves? Well that is even better. When you learn to love yourself, then you will be on your way to having better sex.
When you introduce sex toys into the bedroom then the focus will be off you and onto them instead. With something else to focus on, you are going to have a little less pressure on you, which is always a sure-fire way to make you feel a little more comfortable and confident. Not only this but having sex toys will also make sure that sex is as pleasurable as possible and when you are in the throes of pleasure, then you are definitely going to be less focused on how you look.
As you can see there are plenty of ways that you can boost your confidence and make sure that you have the best sex ever! The main one is to remember that you are who you are and that you simply need to relax and to enjoy the moment. After all, there really is nothing better than a good session!