Everything You Need To Know About Pegging

Everything You Need To Know About Pegging

As people we are becoming much more aware of our own sexual preferences and we are becoming more confident in being able to tell others what we want and what we like in (or even out of) the bedroom.

There are some fetishes, or sexual practices that are relatively new, that might not have much known about them or perhaps are mis-understood. One of these is pegging. So, what is pegging and why is it something that other people want to try out for themselves?

What is pegging?

So, let’s start with finding out more about what pegging actually is. The idea of pegging is that a woman will wear a strap-on dildo, which she will then use to penetrate her male partner. The dildo that is used could be one that is double ended so whilst the woman is pegging her partner, she can also feel the benefit of using the dildo on herself too.

What makes it something people want to do?

It is true that pegging isn’t for everyone, but for the people who do have it is as a part of their love life it seems to be incredibly popular. So, what is it about it that appeals? Of course for men it is the fact that there are pleasure points found within their anus, which will help to make their orgasm even more powerful, there is also some kind of power and submission vibes going on with it too.

For women it is more about power and control, it is about knowing that you are in charge of your partners pleasure. Of course, it will also show you just how much hard work being the “man” in the bedroom is. It gives an appreciation to the other person in your life and it also boosts feelings of trust too.

The basic steps of trying pegging for yourself

Think that pegging might be something that you want to try for yourself with your partner? If it is then you are going to want to learn the basics. It is important that you are safe when you start out pegging and that you have fun with it too.

You should always take the time to talk to your partner and set some ground rules too, maybe a safe word should be invented if you don’t already have one. You want to make sure that your partner feels comfortable in being able to tell you to go slower to try and different position or perhaps lube up a little more.

It isn’t always a good idea to dive straight into pegging with a dildo as this can be quite intimidating to a man who is not used to being penetrated anally. Instead, encourage him to explore that area on his own, it usually best to start off by using his own fingers and plenty of lube too.

Once he feels comfortable with this, then you can start to think about introducing a toy into it. It is important to find a good quality strap-on as this can make the entire process so much more positive for you both. The harness to the strap on should fit perfectly and should be comfortable to the wearer.

You also need to make sure that you have plenty of lube too, as this will make sure that everything slides in much easier and is so much more pleasurable for him and of course for you too.

Finally, it is important that you go slow, never rush pegging, never put pressure on either partner. You both need to feel comfortable, to feel relaxed and to feel ready to try out this brand new thing in your sex life!

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