Sexual confidence isn’t something that comes easily for everyone, however, it is also something that if you work at it then you can develop it. But, where do you start? To help you to feel more confident in the bedroom, here are 4 simple tips on how to boost your sexual confidence.
The first place that you need to start when it comes to sexual confidence is to have an understanding of yourself and what you want. When you know your own body and what gives you the most pleasure, then you can share this with your partner. So, take the time to explore your own body, learn what you like (and in turn what you don’t like) and we can promise you that you are going to have even better sex.
Take the time to know your partner
Not only is it important to know yourself in order to have a great sex life, but it also vitally important that you take the time to know your partner too. The best way to do this is to encourage them to share with you what things that they like, as this will make sure you know exactly what to do. If they are finding it hard to share, then you might want to instead listen out for any vocal cues they give you during sex or foreplay, which will help you to figure out what to do to get them turned on.
They say that the best way to feel more confident is simply to act it. Now, we know that this might sound a little strange; but it really can work. If you tell yourself that you are confident, that you are in charge, then over time you are going to actually listen to your mind and you will start to feel more confident.
Stop worrying about your body
One of the simplest ways to boost your sexual confidence, is to let go of all your body hang ups. It is no secret that plenty of us feel a little unsure of how we look naked, which can mean that we feel less than pleased to strip off when the time comes. However, this is definitely not going to be the right way to get yourself in the mood. It is important that you let go of all your body hang ups, or at least as much as you can. You may be concerned about your stretchmarks or about your bumpy thighs; but we can assure you that those are the last things on your partners mind.
Being confident is something that we can all achieve and that can really give us a boost in the bedroom that we all need. So, rather than worrying about how you look, or how to ask for what you want; take the steps to actually make sure that you not only feel amazing but that you have the best sex possible too.
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